If your man's focused on travelling to boost his career , but ur clucky as hell and want to stay put , you're at a coupledom crossroads. either somebody compromises (without bitterness) , or u move on. 'Prior to making a long term commitment , couples need to affirm with each other what they want from the relationship,' said Philip Armstrong.
De 2nd step - REIGNITE THE PASSION
When a couple stay long together , they tends to make their live bored and routine.. So try to make it change..boost up ur sex live like bringing her flower early in the morning and give her a sweet morning kiss..=P girls can do the same as well..i bet ur guys will feel flatter..hehe..or u can try cooking to each other...=D
De 3rd step - STAND UP FOR MAMA
PARENTS. you love them but sometimes you want to administer medication for their interfering. ' meddling parents need to be confront immediately,'. If not , there's high risk either partner's parent will always have the last say. Try not to buckle when ur oldies give you 'that look' , it's only going to get more stressful if u promise ur dad you'll cancel the trip without talking to ur partner 1st which ur partner who really wanted to go.
De 4th step - FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT
Try not using those harsh word such as ' fuck u , diu lei , go to hell and etc etc..' in ur fight..It reali can make someone more angry and heart broken...try starting with the sentence 'i feel upset and i cant relax when the house is messy' instead 'you are such a lazy fat pig'. lol..next , winning an arguement is not important if u reali love them. Each time after a fight , ur relation will be sweeter..!
5th step - STAY INDEPENDENT
Dont onli stay with ur partner and abandon ur frens...! Try to make it balance or else when times get longer , when things turn ugly between u and ur partner , there will be no one for u to lean on a shoulder , to hear u out , to help u go thru a painful nite. and have ur own interest. and ur own identity. dont change urself just because ur partner. both of u need some private space too..!
De 6th step - BUILD A BEST FRIENDSHIP
'A partner who tuly lov u also can be ur best frens'. means when u r ranting about something , he's always tere to listen and give u the comfort..is unlikely you'll find anyone else who can give u all this and be happy to do so. when u r rantin about something , he's tere to listen and gives comfort..makes ur day better..
De 7th step - TEAM UP IN TOUGH TIMES
Let's say both of u lost ur job , pennyless , the guy was redundant , and then the girl is dignosed with breast cancer. This moment is really important ..if u can get over it , means that's nothing can get in ur way. Try to clam down , and think each other's feeling. Try not easily be frustrated and stay calm..
p/s : HAPPY VALENTINE AND HAPPY CHINESE NEW YR IN ADVANCED ...*shiok sendiri..haha..and rmbr to watch 'THE VALENTINES'.~~ is incredibly sweet..! with alot of famous actor and actress...=D=D=D..so long for now...bye bye..
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